Just share an experience about that. To prepare our merried is not easy like you plan a sweet 17th party.
I must prepare step by step each condition and also the most important is mental.
Not rarely, the bride had felt disambigues about the choice. BUt my opinion is to do together with your couple.
Decide the pursuit things to both of you. Don’t listen all advise from outside. Your the main course of your best part of life.
your way your choice ^^